The Things We Model For Our Kids

Antoinette Steyn • February 25, 2022

There are many things that we as parents model for our kids. Sometimes we do this without even realising it. As parents, we are the biggest role models in the lives of our children, especially in their early childhood years. Here are some things we model for our kids whether we might realise it or not:


  • Dealing with mistakes;
  • Dealing with conflict;
  • Having patience;
  • Self-care;
  • How we stand up for ourselves and others;
  • The power of a positive/negative mindset;
  • The importance of apologising and forgiveness
  • The ability to ask for help;
  • How we deal with differences in people;
  • How we listen;


Sometimes being the best version of yourself as a parent is one of the greatest gifts you can give your child and remember, they are ALWAYS watching you.

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